All Saints Episcopal Church in Chicago

Lust, Sex, Murder and Forgiveness

II Samuel 11 & 12
Bonnie A. Perry
June 16, 2013

Come Holy Spirit and fill our hearts with the transforming power of your presence, in your Holy Name we pray. Amen.

Good Morning.

Lust, sex, deceit, drunkenness, adultery and murder: it's a wonder more people don't read the Bible. But I have to say the people who we are hearing about in this reading they are not folks with whom I want to spend a lot of time. I don't like how this story begins, where it goes or how it ends. Mostly because I understand how it starts.

We are a fragile, broken lot. Oh true, we have moments of brilliance, love, compassion, honesty, clarity and forthrightness, but we also have the capacity the capability to...Oh we can be such a sodden, broken lot. At least that's how I feel about myself some days, some weeks. I look at myself and I say, "Really—really Bonnie—you thought that was a good idea?" "You thought that was a helpful thing to say?" Or I take a look around and wonder: We are the ones God is depending upon? Really?

The Story--it's the midpoint—if you will—1000 years after Abraham and about 1000 years before Jesus—give or take. The Israelites are in the promised land. The problem with the promised land is that there are other people in it. So the Israelites are figuring out how to exist. As a result wars, campaigns and battles are commonplace.

David, a leader, chosen for the role as a child from the beginning he cuts an impressive swath in the world. He comes on to the scene after Saul, the very first king of Israel, pretty much makes a hash of things. David, is the youngest of 8 sons. A boy, as a shepherd he is chosen and anointed by Samuel. After being chosen he patiently waits to embody his call.

Saul is a melancholic sort he hears of David's talents as a musician and poet and asks him to court to play his music and soothe his soul. When David next appears we see him rising to the challenge issued by Goliath. We know how that story goes—adolescent boy versus giant warrior. Giant warrior felled by one well-placed stone in a shepherd's sling-shot.

Fast-forward thirty years. With lots and lots of intrigue, betrayals and partnerships in between (including David's lovely friendship with Jonathan but that's a different sermon.) Now we have David, the unquestioned, wildly beloved King of Israel. A man who has made Jerusalem something of a holy place. A man who has transformed the Israelites from a loose confederation of nomadic tribes to a settled people with a government, a civil service, a judiciary and an urbane, sophisticated upper class.

David is the man. He is, as biblical scholar Washington Jarvis says, "A restless middle aged man—who has it all—and finds himself bored in his success." So as David's troops are fighting on the borders, he is wandering around his rooftop garden surveying the city. When he sees a flash in the sun that catches his attention. Turns out the flash, was the splash of the water of the tub in which Bathsheba was bathing. Cleansing herself after her monthly menstrual cycle. David sees. David looks. David wants. David's the king. David is the king, David gets.

He makes inquiries—who is she? Oh—Bathsheba—Uriah the Hittites wife. Hmmm, lovely. A servant replies, Uriah, your faithful servant, decorated officer who is even now is fighting for Israel. David sends for her. Sleeps with her. And a sentence later in the only words we hear from Bathsheba in this entire section, we find out she is now pregnant. David is the father, that much is perfectly clear.

What does he do? He's got a problem. He summons Uriah back from the battlefield under the guise of giving David a report on how the campaign is progressing. Uriah fills him in. David says, "Thank you. Thank you. You must be tired. Go on home. See your wife. Wash your feet (biblical code for sleep with your wife.)

David rests easy. He sleeps well for the first time in weeks. Problem seen, problem solved. Except when David awakes that morning, what does he see but Uriah, his faithful servant, still looking like he just came in from the battlefield, sleeping at the front gate with the servants.

David, "What are you doing here? You didn't go home?"
Proudly replies Uriah, "Israel and Judah are living under tents, the ark is under canvas my comrades are all at battle. How could I go home? Eat and drink and have sex with my wife?"

David is flummoxed. So then he says stay another day. David then proceeds to feed Uriah and get him drunk. And then he sends Uriah home again. But Uriah, smashed out of his mind, is more devout, more pious than King David stone cold sober. Uriah leaves and again sleeps at the gate never crossing his own threshold.

The next morning David sends him back to the front, but with a sealed note to the commander. The note says, "Send Uriah to the front—where the fighting is fiercest—then pull back."

A few days later, words come, not surprisingly, Uriah has been killed.
Bathsheba keens and mourns for her lost husband.
Seven days pass, the mourning period is over. David sends for Bathsheba. He takes her and makes her another one of his wives.

That's where our story picks up today. Nathan the prophet comes in and tells David a story. It's a story about a rich man who has everything and a poor man who has very little, but one thing the poor man has is a ewe. A ewe who he raised like a child. Held her in his arms, fed her from his plate, loved her like a daughter. The rich man has a guest arrive—he doesn't want to be bothered slaughtering any of his own flocks to feed the guest—so he takes the ewe— the poor man's treasured one. Kills it, cooks it and feeds it to his guest.

David is horrified with the rich man's actions. Livid at the injustice, declares that the rich man has violated all that is good and right. The rich man should die, absent that he must restore to the poor man 7 times over. This is such a grievous offense. Wantonly taking what little the man had.

Nathan nods and calmly says, "You are that man."

God says this to you, "I called you. I anointed you. I gave you all of Israel and Judah—and would have given you more, but this was not enough for you?! You have killed Uriah the Hittite, you have despised me, and taken his wife and his life."

Time pauses, concentrates and then explodes like a dumping, devastating cement loaded wave crashing over David's head. David feels, David sees with complete and utter clarity what a thoroughly wretched human being he is.

You—You are that man. The pause although momentary is hours in his brain and pain—you are that man...

David says: (now truly naked before the Lord) David says. "I am. I am that wretched one I have sinned. I have sinned before the Lord.

Two things happen.
One: there will be consequences for his actions. The baby dies. Don't get me started on how this can happen. All I can say is when we sin, when we screw up, frequently other people in a variety of ways get hurt. That's why we call it sin.
God's gift to us of free will, well it is a gift with massive responsibility.

Two things happen: One when we sin frequently people are hurt.

Two: When we sin, if we realize our error, own our faults, our actions, and are truly sorry, and do all we can to make amends, God forgives us. Other people may still be hurt, we may or may not be able to make adequate restitution, but God will and God does forgive us.

Nathan says, "Your sin is forgiven. God has put away your sin."

Really?? That's it? David says he's sorry and that's it? God forgives him? Really?? That's enough?? That's all he has to do-- adultery, murder, and God is moving on?

David's second son with Bathsheba—is Solomon—Solomon the wise one—Solomon who builds the temple—God moved on.

Here's the very very good news: Once we have named it, confessed it, owned it, God moves on from our sin, God moves on from our sin.

And so should we.

Thanks be to God.

Amen.

Copyright: Bonnie A. Perry June 2013

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Dear Friends,

Next Sunday evening, June 4th, is the 38th All Saints' Cafe, when we transform our kitchen and parish hall into a gourmet restaurant for our hungry neighbors -- and we need your help to make it happen!

Please sign up here to volunteer that evening as a server, busser, dishwasher, host, food runner, food plater, or beverage attendant. Or sign up here to prepare the meal in the kitchen along with our fabulous chefs next Saturday or Sunday.

Bonnie is out of town for the weekend, and the church office will be closed on Monday for Memorial Day.

Blessings upon all of you who are traveling this weekend. And blessings upon you who are staying in town!

I look forward to seeing as many of you as possible this Sunday.

Peace,
Emily

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Believe it or not, summer is coming (albeit very slowly). It's time to plan vacations and then to find a Sunday or two when you're going to be around and can host Coffee Hour. We will only schedule Summer Coffee Hour on those Sundays when we have a volunteers.

Click here to see the full list of dates and sign up now! (It will make my summer easier.)

Thanks,
Karen Howe


andreaThe last few Sundays of our church school year are quickly approaching:

Sunday, June 11th - Our last official day in the atrium is the day we recognize the children who are graduating to a new atrium level and introduce them to their new atrium community. This day is a simple but lovely celebration of how all of our children have grown, what has been accomplished during the year, and anticipation of the transition to a new atrium year.

Sunday, June 18th - The Annual Ice Cream Social when church school hosts coffee hour and what's better than ice cream!
There will be a variety of ice cream flavors and many possible toppings for do-it-yourself Sundaes served on the lawn in front of the church. Children help with set up serve (and eating!) ice cream, and clearing away the debris

The rest of June and July - Although Sunday school classes do not meet at 10 during the summer, Atrium I will continue to be open during the 9 o'clock service until the end of July. Atrium I children who attend the 11 o'clock service will be welcome in the nursery during the service.

At 10 o'clock children are encouraged to come help water, weed and harvest vegetables from the garden we're planting to support the Ravenswood Services Community Kitchen.

Saturday, June 10, 11:00am at St. James Cathedral 

If you have taken an Inquirers Class or equivalent and would like to make an adult profession of faith by being confirmed or received into the Episcopal Church by our bishop, Jeffrey Lee, please contact Bonnie or Emily. A diocesan-wide liturgy of confirmation and reception will be held at St. James Cathedral on Saturday, June 10, at 11:00am.

Sunday, June 11, 10:15am

breadbasketAll Saints' parishioner The Rev. Martin Deppe recently published the book Operation Breadbasket: An Untold Story of Civil Rights in Chicago, 1966-1971

This is the first full history of Operation Breadbasket, the interfaith economic justice program that transformed into Jesse Jackson's Operation PUSH (now the Rainbow PUSH Coalition). Begun by Martin Luther King Jr. during the 1966 Chicago Freedom Movement, Breadbasket was directed by Jackson. Martin was one of Breadbasket's founding pastors. He digs deeply into the program's past to update the meager narrative about Breadbasket, add details to King's and Jackson's roles, and tell Breadbasket's little-known story.

On Sunday, June 11 between services, All Saints' will once again host Martin for a discussion and book signing. Book copies will be available for purchase.

In Martin's words, "I much prefer telling the story to selling books!" We hope you'll join us to hear this story.

sinclairlewisSummer Lineup Selected

The All Saints Book Club met on May 11th and decided on a lineup of books for the next year. The book club is open to anyone who enjoys reading. The meetings start at 7:30 PM usually at the home of a member. The locations and further details are on our Facebook page.

Here is the schedule for the next several months:

  • June 8 - "It Can't Happen Here" by Sinclair Lewis
  • July 13 - "The Warmth of Other Suns" by Isabel Wilkerson
  • August 10 - "Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil" by John Berendt
  • September 14 - "Operation Breadbasket" by Martin Deppe

For additional information, contact Mike Burke (mebcat@gmail.com)

Sunday, June 4 at the 9 and 11am Services
 
If you would like to have your child baptized at All Saints' on Pentecost, June 4, please plan to attend a preparation session on Saturday May 20 from 9-10:30am. 
 
To RSVP to a session, contact Andrew in the office. Note: Babies and children - including siblings of little ones being baptized - are entirely welcome at the pre-baptismal sessions!

Tuesday, May 30, 5:00-6:00pm 

RCS' 5th Tuesday Family Nights are a chance for parents and children to volunteer together. On Tuesday, May 30, children ages 4 and up accompanied by their parents are invited to meet in the parish hall at 5:00pm to decorate cookies for that evening's dinner. At 5:30pm, we'll head to the nursery for a snack and children's story about social justice. At 6:00pm, childcare will be available so that parents can serve the 6:30pm dinner. Kids 10 and up may serve the dinner, too.
Please RSVP to Emily by Sunday, May 28.

 

 

Individual Actions Towards Racial Equality

Volunteer Opportunities, Events, and Recommendations

(re)imagining: Racial Justice Summit Sponsored by YWCA Evanston/North Shore:


Thursday, April 6 from 6 - 8 pm
Friday, April 7 from 9 am - 4 pm
 
Unitarian Church of Evanston
1330 Ridge Ave., Evanston, IL
 
Goal: "To bring people of all ages and demographics together to deepen their understanding of their own racial identities, develop skills to work for change, formulate action plans and engage with others."

For Information and Registration, click here

"The Scottsboro Boys" at Porchlight Theater through March 12th
 
A musical production that is getting rave reviews, "nominated for 12 Tony Awards, and presented in the style of the notorious "minstrel show", this true-life story of nine African American teenagers accused and put on trial in Memphis for a crime they did not commit is one America's most notorious episodes of injustice; inaugurating a wave of social changes leading up to the modern Civil Rights Movement."

For information and ticket prices, click here

Suggested reading, non-fiction: 
Tears We Cannot Stop: A Sermon to White America by Michael Eric Dyson, January, 2017

This book has been described as "...a provocative and deeply personal call for change. Dyson argues that if we are to make real racial progress we must face difficult truths, including being honest about how black grievance has been ignored, dismissed, or discounted."

 
Recommended as a "companion piece to the film rather than a stand-alone book." One reviewer recommended "seeing the film first, and then using the book for meditation and revisiting afterward."

Volunteer opportunity: GROWING HOME "We have a vision of a world of healthy people and communities. Everyone deserves to have a good job, and everyone deserves to eat well." Since 2002, Growing Home has trained and employed and, most importantly, given a second chance to people with employment barriers. You may be familiar with their Wood Street farm in Englewood. Their farms are the first and only USDA-certified organic high-production urban farms in Chicago, and because they strive to also feed their community well, all their produce is grown, harvested, cleaned, and sold within a 20-mile radius. Read more at http://growinghomeinc.org

Volunteer opportunity: Non-profit Reading In Motion has successfully refined its mission over its 30+ years to help give kindergarten and first grade students foundational reading skills they need to start on a path for lifetime learning. They partner with public school teachers and have been extremely successful in making a difference in children's lives. Click here for more info.

 

We're running low on paper and reusable bags for our Tuesday night pantry. Please bring us your extras! 
 
We will be taking donations on Tuesday evenings, M-F 9am-4pm, and on Sundays during church services. Look for the bins by the doors. Thanks for your help!

 Sundays at 2pm

breakersbibleWe are very excited to announce that every Sunday at 2:00 pm, All Saints' offers something new at the Breakers - An Evening Prayer Service! Our first event was Sunday, December 4th, and went marvelously well - we had 13 attendees! Folks are very pleased that there's a Protestant service being offered in addition to the current choices (which are Catholic and Moody Bible.) The Prayer Service itself is printed in large print and in bulletin style with scripture taken each week from the Common Lectionary.

The weekly service starts at 2:00 pm, upstairs on the second floor Meditation Room, and lasts about 15 minutes. Please contact Paul Mallatt if you have questions, or comments at 773-860-4649. When you can, stop by the Breakers (5333 N Sheridan Rd) where the parking is free (for 2 hours), the coffee is hot, and the folks are friendly!

 

Jeff Lee
Dear Polly and All Saint's Kids,
 
I am writing to you from a meeting of the board of Episcopal Relief & Development in Bogota, Columbia. We are meeting here to visit some of our partner ministries with people in need. I have seen the amazing results of this year's bake sale (in fact, I'm looking at photos of some of the cakes - wow!), and you have reminded me that we don't have to travel to Columbia or South Sudan to make a huge impact for the good of God's people.
 
I am so proud and grateful for you and the work you do. You guys are heroes. Our friends in South Sudan will be blessed by your effort.
 
In Christ,
 
Jeffrey D. Lee
Bishop of Chicago

Sundays at 10am

The phrase Imago Dei means the Image of God. Specifically, the image of God as it is found in humanity. The image of God in us - it is what makes us spiritual people - valued as whole and complete. What does it mean to creatively live as whole people? How do we live in relationship with others - respecting and sharing one another's security and one another's discomfort?

Join us on Sunday mornings between services as we figure out together how to help one another take practical responsibility for living in this world - especially as racial and spiritual beings.

True - our time will be uncomfortable because it will mean talking about race, violence, personal helplessness, and personal failure. Also true - this will be comforting and supportive because it will mean getting to be honest, practicing together, and caring for one another.

Every week we will ask one another "What have you done in these past 7 days with who you are and within your sphere of influence when it comes to the realities of race?" the answers will be different for each person and it won't be a competition. We will be lifting up the everyday choices we make and don't make. Sometimes we will like what happens and sometimes we won't.

And - we will be doing it together.

The Middle Eastern refugees and immigrants served by the Iraqi Mutual Aid Society were deeply moved by the notes of welcome from All Saints. We shared them at our community lunch on Thursday, and now they will hang in our conference room to remind people of your warm welcome in the days to come. Thanks!

Peace,
Laura Youngberg

breadbakersSignup online to bake for a month

Calling all bakers! If you love the smell of fresh-baked bread filling your kitchen, please consider signing up to bake communion bread for our services. This involves a one-month commitment that you'll share with another baker, and you can do all your baking at once and add to the reserves in our freezer.

Signing up is easy, just click here for our page on Signup Genius and reserve your favorite month.

Contact Jennifer Simokaitis, or Anne Ellis if you have any questions.

Yard Signs Available 

Grow Community has created yard signs for anyone who would like to display support for our local public high schools. Signs and sign holders are available in the Reading Room.

 
 

 

Tuesdays 6:15-8:00pm 

 

RCS is looking for help serving and cleaning up after dinner on Tuesdays from 6:15-8:00pm.
 
If you're able to volunteer, contact Emily or Operations Manager Parker Callahan, or call 773-769-0282.

 

helloDo you feel called to create an open, welcoming, hospitable environment at All Saints? Do you like meeting and connecting with people? Join the new Hospitality Ministry! Members of the Hospitality Ministry will help the clergy and vestry create a welcoming culture by greeting new members, engaging new faces at coffee hour, and helping connect new members of All Saints with our various programs.

Interested? Contact Diane Doran or Michelle Mayes. Include "Hospitality Ministry" in the subject line.

Our new Associate Rector, Emily Williams Guffey, is enjoying getting to know everyone in our congregation. Help her put names and faces together by adding yourself to our online directory!

If you are a member of All Saints' and haven't already registered for the directory, please contact our resident web guru Jim Crandall at website@allsaintschicago.org and he will send a user name, password, and instructions.

Join the All Saints' Care Ministry! 

casseroleThe Care Ministry at All Saints' is a quiet one, simply providing meals after a new baby arrives, after surgery, during an illness. Because when life gets complicated, dinner is often the last thing on our minds--but sometimes a meal and visit from a friend is exactly what we need!

If you can provide a meal, give someone a ride, or run an errand once in awhile, please email care@allsaintschicago.org. You'll be contacted when a need arises and you can sign up to help at your convenience.

 

tinaParishioner, Tina Tchen, accepts Bishop Maryann Budde's invitation to preach at the National Cathedral Sunday, May 8. Click here to see the video.

 

Please consider supporting the restoration project of our historic building. To make a donation, click here

1883 Construction web 

This week’s stories of the bell tower: The beams and posts in the bell tower are being filled with epoxy and fungicide to prevent future insect damage and to restore their strength and integrity. Here are some photos of the work currently taking place. Everywhere you see white is where the post or beam is being rebuilt, restored and protected.
 
The blue hue in the photo is from the tarp surrounding the bell tower enabling Ron Young and his crew to continue working in the dropping temperatures.
 
 

Here is a collection of photos of the progress of our 1883 Project. Here is a collection of bell tower photos. Check back often for updates.


Sunday Service Times

8:00 am Inclusive Language Eucharist
9:00 am Holy Eucharist with Choir
10:00 am Children's Church School
10:00 am Coffee Hour
11:00 am Holy Eucharist with Choir

 

Contact Us

4550 N. Hermitage in Chicago, IL 60640 (Directions)

Phone (773) 561-0111

Email info@allsaintschicago.org 

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The Deep Sleep of Racial Oblivion: One Pastor's Sin of Omission

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