All Saints Episcopal Church in Chicago

Me, Too

Trinity Sunday • June 11, 2017
Genesis 1:1-2:4a (“The Creation” by James Weldon Johnson) • Psalm 8

“You think your pain and your heartbreak are unprecedented in the history of the world, but then you read,” said James Baldwin in 1963. “It was books,” he said, “ that taught me that the things that tormented me most were the very things that connected me with all the people who were alive or who had ever been alive.”

The contemporary author Cheryl Strayed quotes Baldwin as she goes on to suggest that the “grand mission” of literature is “to tell the complicated truths about what it means to be human, but the most powerful proof,” she says, “that any writer has achieved that lofty goal is in the humble phrase: me, too.”

“Me, too: I have suffered. Me, too: I have loved. Me, too: I have [felt] joy. Me, too: I know what it is to forgive and struggle and…lose and triumph. Me, too: I am just like you, even though we are entirely different.”1

It seems that our God is a God of me, too. “I’m lonely!” God says. “I’ll make me a world.”2 If only I could just make a world whenever I’m lonely. But later God looks upon all he had made—his sun, her moon, his little stars, all her living things—and God says, “I’m lonely still.”

Could it be that at the heart of God is loneliness? A longing to be with? To know and to be known, to love and be loved? That at the heart of God is desire, for us?

Who are we that God would be mindful of us?3 And yet here we are. As children of God, made in God’s image, we are no strangers to desire; it is in us just as it is in God. Desire is in our marrow, in our souls, at the center of our lives, it drives us; we are “congenitally dis-eased…forever restless, dissatisfied, frustrated, and aching.”4

Prayer, says theologian Sarah Coakley, is a crucible for our desires.5 Prayer is to spend time before God to sort out which desires are good for us, and which, not so much; which desires illuminate the next right step forward, and which would actually have us retreat backward. The Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness; for we do not know how to pray as we ought, but that very Spirit intercedes with sighs too deep for words. And God, who searches the heart, knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for us according to the will of God.6 Prayer, says Coakley, like the Trinity is “one experience of God, but God as simultaneously (i) doing the praying in me, (ii) receiving that prayer, and (iii) in that exchange” creating me to be more like Christ”: one God, searching our hearts and longing for our response, pointing us toward our Creator, and changing us, always creating us, to be who we are7—because God wants us, and without that desire, all of our own prayer and striving is fruitless.8

Coakley admits that this happens over a good long time, sometimes joyfully and sometimes really painfully, and always with the help of others,9 especially those confidantes who hear you, who point out your truths before you might even know them, who hold you and love you in all of your glories and imperfections10—and as such, are precious clues to God’s patient love for us, God’s desire, burning since before the world began, to delight in us and with us.

Cheryl Strayed is talking about writing, but I think she just as easily is talking about praying: that act that begins usually in solitude, usually in private, usually somewhat silent, and that slowly and surely changes us and those we love, and the world. To write—and to pray—is to illumine our darkest corners with language, to tell truth after truth that at first seemed impossible to bear. To let our desires meet God’s desire for us is, in part, to excavate the things we’ve buried most deeply, of which we’re most afraid. To be a Christian is to tell God and one another those stories of when we got lost, and those stories of how we found our way back—together. Me, too. Me, too. Me, too.11


1 “The Power of ‘Me Too’”, May 16, 2017, https://onbeing.org/blog/cheryl-strayed-the-power-of-me-too/

2 “The Creation” from God’s Trombones, James Weldon Johnson, 1927, https://www.poets.org/poetsorg/poem/creation. This was read in place of the Genesis at two of the three services.

3 Psalm 8:5

4 Ronald Rolheiser, The Holy Longing: The Search for a Christian Spirituality, p. 3

5 “Prayer as Crucible”, The Christian Century, March 2011, https://www.christiancentury.org/article/2011-03/prayer-crucible

6 Romans 8:26-27

7 Sarah Coakley, “Living into the Mystery of the Holy Trinity: Trinity, Prayer, and Sexuality”, Anglican Theological Review, Vol. 8, No. 2, Spring 1998, p. 230

8 Coakley, “Crucible”, p. 37

9 “Crucible”, p. 38

10 Courtney E. Martin, “The Gifts We Give, The Gifts We Are”, June 8, 2017, https://onbeing.org/blog/courtney-martin-the-gifts-we-give-the-gifts-we-are/

11 This paragraph heavily quoted from / adapted from / in conversation with / a remix of Cheryl Strayed, “The Power of ‘Me Too’”

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Dear Friends,    

This seems to be the year where I realize that the young people who were 8 and 10 years old 18 years ago, are now in their late twenties; time doing what time does. This week is particularly poignant for me as I spend the weekend watching Patrick Pressl, (the man whom many of you know of as our amazing Christmas Pageant Donkey) become a 2nd Lt. in the United States Marine Corps. 
 
I won't be with you all on Sunday because I've flown to Quantico, VA to be with Patrick and his family to celebrate his wonderful achievement. My dad is a retired Lt. Col. in the Marines, so I find this milestone for Patrick to be particularly moving. It is such a gift to be with this faith community for this long and to see our children become faithful adults with purpose, pride, and an abiding sense of justice. 
 
This Sunday, Emily will be celebrating. Parishioner and retired pastor, the Rev. Martin Deppe, will be preaching and Colin and the choir will be creating compelling music. I'll be back Sunday night.
 
Many thanks to Parker Callahan and Emily Guffey and the very, many volunteers who enabled last week's All Saints' Cafe to be one of our best ever. The food was amazing and the dishwashing crew was stupendous. 
 
Advent evensong and reflections begin Wednesday, November 29th. I am looking forward to having the beauty of Holden Evening Prayer wash over me and to then spend some extended time studying and reflecting on W. H. Auden's poem, "For the Time Being: A Christmas Oratorio." Please join me Nov 29, Dec 6 and Nov. 13. 
 
Enjoy the return of Fall. 
 
All my best,
Bonnie

kellybdWe are very excited that the Rev. Dr. Kelly Brown Douglas will be spending a weekend with us this fall, September 23 and 24. Kelly was formerly the Canon Theologian at our National Cathedral. In the fall she will become the first Dean of the Episcopal Divinity School, now located at Union Theological Seminary. We've invited Kelly to spend the weekend with us so that we might again return to our work on confronting racism. Kelly is an amazing preacher and theologian and we are beyond honored that she is making time in her incredibly busy schedule to be with us. Look for more details in the next few weeks on the spirituality and theology that we will be exploring together. 

In the event that you find yourself looking for some interesting summer reading, here are some books she has suggested we investigate: HomecomingThe Color of Law, and one by Kelly called Stand Your Ground. She also suggested that watching 13th on Netflix would be helpful.

Racism is an issue that we are called to confront and challenge and end. It is not something that will just die a gentle death. Our hope is that with our time with Kelly and one another, we may again return to this important work. 

midnightFall Reading List Selected

The All Saints Book Club has defined its reading list through the fall. The meetings start at 7:30 PM usually at the home of a member. The locations and further details are on our Facebook page. Here is the schedule for the next several months:

  • August 10 - "Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil" by John Berendt
  • September 14 - "Operation Breadbasket" by Martin Deppe (meet in the Reading Room at the church)
  • October 12 - "Saints and Villains" by Denise Giardina
  • November 9 - "The Haunting of Hill House" by Shirley Jackson
  • December 14 - Pick your own poetry book and share favorite poem(s)

For additional information, contact Mike Burke (mebcat@gmail.com)

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breakersbibleWe are very excited to announce that every Sunday at 2:00 pm, All Saints' offers something new at the Breakers - An Evening Prayer Service! Our first event was Sunday, December 4th, and went marvelously well - we had 13 attendees! Folks are very pleased that there's a Protestant service being offered in addition to the current choices (which are Catholic and Moody Bible.) The Prayer Service itself is printed in large print and in bulletin style with scripture taken each week from the Common Lectionary.

The weekly service starts at 2:00 pm, upstairs on the second floor Meditation Room, and lasts about 15 minutes. Please contact Paul Mallatt if you have questions, or comments at 773-860-4649. When you can, stop by the Breakers (5333 N Sheridan Rd) where the parking is free (for 2 hours), the coffee is hot, and the folks are friendly!

 

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Interested? Contact Diane Doran or Michelle Mayes. Include "Hospitality Ministry" in the subject line.

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casseroleThe Care Ministry at All Saints' is a quiet one, simply providing meals after a new baby arrives, after surgery, during an illness. Because when life gets complicated, dinner is often the last thing on our minds--but sometimes a meal and visit from a friend is exactly what we need!

If you can provide a meal, give someone a ride, or run an errand once in awhile, please email care@allsaintschicago.org. You'll be contacted when a need arises and you can sign up to help at your convenience.

 

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1883 Construction web 

This week’s stories of the bell tower: The beams and posts in the bell tower are being filled with epoxy and fungicide to prevent future insect damage and to restore their strength and integrity. Here are some photos of the work currently taking place. Everywhere you see white is where the post or beam is being rebuilt, restored and protected.
 
The blue hue in the photo is from the tarp surrounding the bell tower enabling Ron Young and his crew to continue working in the dropping temperatures.
 
 

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Bonnie on Huffington Post

Occasionally Bonnie's sermons are published on the Huffington Post. Here are some links.

Pain. Change. Hope.

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What Does St. Francis of Assisi Have to Say to Us Today?

October 4, 2015

Wake Up Calls

September 6, 2015

Christmas Reminds Us That We, Like God, Are Human, Too

December 24, 2014

The Deep Sleep of Racial Oblivion: One Pastor's Sin of Omission

November 30, 2014

Pulpit Swap

The Pulpit Swap between St Thomas and All Saints is part of our ongoing effort to bring our parishes closer together as we engage in a conversation about systemic racism and how we can work together to forge new possibilities and outcomes.

Going Home—Changed

Pulpit Swap Sermon By The Rev Bonnie Perry of All Saints Episcopal Church on October 16, 2016.  

When Prayers Go Unanswered

Pulpit Swap Sermon By The Rev Dr Fulton L Porter celebrating at All Saints Episcopal Church on Oct16 2016.